Palms sweaty. Heart racing. Stomach fluttering.
Trying not to look bothered and silently praying it would be over soon.
No — I’m not talking about a roller coaster. I’m talking about how I used to feel in every single maths lesson.
Maths anxiety is far more common than many people realise. It’s estimated that around 2 million children regularly experience maths anxiety, and it doesn’t stop at primary school. For many, those feelings carry through secondary school and even into adulthood.
“I’m Just Not a Maths Person”
For years, I believed I simply wasn’t a “maths person”. English felt safer. There were multiple interpretations, space to explore ideas, and layers of meaning waiting to be uncovered. Maths, by contrast, felt rigid: rules, methods, right or wrong answers.
Over time, I started to switch off. I could often understand the topic. I could answer the questions. But one comment from an early teacher echoed constantly in my head:
“Some people just aren’t great at maths.”
Every time a question was asked, that sentence replayed itself. Eventually, maths lessons became something to endure rather than engage with.
By the time I sat my GCSE maths exam, the anxiety had built up so much that I burst into tears as soon as I opened the paper.
When the exam ended, I promised myself I would never study maths again.
What Maths Anxiety Does to the Brain
Years later, I came across a BBC article that put into words exactly what I had experienced. Research shared in the article explains that brain scans of children aged seven to nine showed that those who feel anxious about maths have greater activity in the amygdala — the part of the brain associated with threat and fear.
This heightened anxiety can reduce working memory, making it harder for children to concentrate and process the maths in front of them. In other words, the anxiety itself can block performance, even when understanding is there.
The article goes on to explain a damaging cycle:
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Anxiety leads to poorer performance
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Poorer performance increases avoidance
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Avoidance deepens anxiety the next time maths appears
Left unchecked, maths anxiety can have long-term consequences for confidence, learning, and future choices.
Maths Anxiety Doesn’t Mean You Can’t Do Maths
Looking back now, I feel sad about how disengaged I became from maths — not because I couldn’t do it, but because I believed I couldn’t.
As a teacher, I now know I am capable of maths. I went back, studied it again, and proved to myself that I could understand and enjoy it. But the anxiety I developed as a teenager hasn’t completely disappeared.
That’s why it’s so important to challenge the idea that maths ability is something you either have or don’t have. This belief — often called a fixed mindset — is one of the biggest drivers of maths anxiety in children.
Maths Anxiety in Teachers Too
While researching this topic, I reached out to Jo Morgan (known as @MathsJem), who writes openly about maths anxiety — not just in pupils, but in teachers.
Her work highlights an often-overlooked issue: teachers who feel anxious about maths themselves may unintentionally pass those feelings on.
One line from her writing really stuck with me:
“It’s good for students to see a real person doing real maths, and making mistakes in the same way they do. It will probably make them feel better about their own anxieties.”
That idea alone lifted a weight off my shoulders. Mistakes aren’t failures — they’re part of learning. And children benefit from seeing that first-hand.
Helping Children with Maths Anxiety: Practical Tips for Parents
Here are some simple, practical ways parents can help reduce maths anxiety at home. Many of these ideas work just as well in the classroom too.
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Avoid saying “I was never good at maths”
Even casually, this reinforces the idea that maths ability is fixed. -
Praise effort, not speed
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Normalise mistakes
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Keep maths low-pressure
Games, puzzles, and real-life maths (like cooking or shopping) can feel safer than worksheets. -
Focus on understanding, not just answers
Ask children to explain their thinking — it builds confidence and clarity.
Final Thoughts
Maths anxiety is real, common, and deeply rooted — but it isn’t permanent.
With the right language, support, and mindset, children (and adults) can rebuild confidence in maths and begin to see it not as something to fear, but something they can do.
Do you have tips or experiences to share around maths anxiety? We’d love to hear them.
Sarah is a primary school teacher. She blogs for SATs Companion and enjoys reading and drinking copious amounts of tea.
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